Working Hard? or Hardly
Working?
E. Carol Webster, Ph.D.
Copyright © 2005
You go to work everyday. You enjoy your job. But you don’t do very much
when you get there. Instead of giving your employer or your own business
your full efforts, you scrape by doing the bare minimum -– primarily
because you can get away with it. Some people work in settings that are
fraught with ineptitude and inefficiency and these environments
encourage even the most industrious individual to slack off. In part,
people are motivated to work hard whether anyone is checking up on them
or not when they enjoy what they’re doing, feel that they are
accomplishing something, and that their efforts are helping them advance
in their career. This may not happen in your workplace.
Thus, you may ask, “Why should I work so hard when nothing will come of
it?” In some ways, you may be justified in feeling this way. But don’t
fall prey to “learned laziness” and erode the positive work ethic you
may have. It will only add to the lack of productivity in your work
environment and cause you to feel even more depressed and unmotivated.
Are you a slacker?
Work laziness is learned behavior. We get our cues about how
hard to work from those around us. Their goofing off dampens our spirit
and energy. We also are negatively influenced by relentless images that
sway us to admire those who get a lot of money for doing very little –- sometimes even breaking laws and rules to get what they want in life.
This can cause even those from very high achieving backgrounds to resist
pushing themselves too hard or causing them only to do so when assured
special compensation, such as bonuses or other rewards. They do only the
work that is absolutely necessary and spend the rest of the time on
other activities –- namely, themselves.
Take a careful look at what you do each day. If you’re spending more
time on personal tasks than the job you get paid to do, then you need to
take stock of yourself. Your employer is not paying you a salary to:
Most employers recognize that you have to take some time during the day
to handle normal life activities, such as checking to see that your
children have made it home safely from school or that your elderly
parents have been fed. But, that’s quite different from being tied to
the phone all day because of family problems or personal business that
prevents you from doing the work you are being paid to do. Similarly,
when you own your own business, sure, you can decide at any point to do
your personal bills, wax the car, or run out to the mall to do some
shopping. But, it is your business that is suffering when you go
overboard in doing this. When you are at work, you are at work.
This means keeping yourself focused and on task so that the activities
that you need to complete in order to successfully get your job done
actually get done.
Figure Out Why You’re Working
In order to get a grip on yourself, start by frankly examining why
you’re working. If it’s just because you have to in order to keep
a roof over your head, then you’re likely to continue to scrape by
because your primary motivation is just to collect a check. Of course,
everyone has to pay their bills. But even if you were wealthy, try to
figure out what would motivate you to go to work. For many people, it’s
a need for some sense of achievement that is experienced when they are
engaged in a job. They like the structure and stimulation of employment
and feel a sense of personal growth and purpose in having something to
point to for how they’ve been spending their time. This is why they put
in long hours and keep working on a project even if no one is looking
over their shoulder because they feel good about what they’re doing and
the quality of the end result. But, there are other ways to gain these
good feelings of purpose and accomplishment. Prefer to work at home?
Spend more time in the community on charitable activities? Rather put
the time into raising your kids? Both men and women struggle with these
issues but often don’t look at options, like making necessary lifestyle
changes in order to realign finances, that might allow them to take the
alternative they would prefer. Yes, it’s hard to make it on one salary
these days but not always impossible. Some people are just
taking up space and would do better to leave the traditional workplace so the job can be held by
someone who really wants to be there.
Accept Your Laziness or Else Do Something About
It
If you conclude that you’re a slacker, own up to it and stop
pretending. Don’t try to fool yourself and others that you’re taking the
job seriously when you really are putting more energy into figuring out
ways to get by without getting caught than you are actually working. If
you’re in a work setting that is not on the ball, you will probably be
able to continue functioning like this for a long time. Similarly, if
you can eke out enough money in your own business to cover your basic
expenses, you will probably be able to get by. But be honest with
yourself and others. Call what you’re doing a hobby and own up to the
fact that you enjoy getting through life without having to do very much.
On the other hand, if you truly don’t feel good about your work ethic,
dig deep for the determination to change it. Remember, this behavior is
learned and can be unlearned.
Get to Work!
You are being paid a salary to do a job. Earn it. Stop whining about
needing bonuses and other rewards in order to do your best. Why should
an employer pay you a salary to do a mediocre job? Any extras
should be for superb performance, not simply for doing well. You should
want to do well for your own sense of self-pride. If you’re
self-employed, you should want to do well so you can continue to eat.
So, decide to make some changes in yourself. Be a winner, dump the
sloth, and get to
work!