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Success!Ezine
Volume 8 Issue 10 -- October 2011
DrCarolWebster.com
Copyright 2011 All Rights Reserved
Success!Ezine
is a Free newsletter provided to you by
Dr. E. Carol Webster to help you get ahead in life
and enjoy your success.
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E. Carol Webster, Ph.D. is a clinical psychologist
consultant in
Fort Lauderdale, FL. Feel free to call or
e-mail for more information.
Dr. Webster is author of
Success Management: How to Get to the Top and Keep
Your Sanity Once You Get There and The
Fear of Success: Stop It From Stopping You! |
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Are You a Mixed Message Manager?
E. Carol
Webster, Ph.D.
Copyright © 2011
It
sounds great to say you support work-life balance, but do you “walk the
walk”? Do you serve as a role model for your staff in getting your work out,
but taking time to enjoy your mate, your children, your friends and
relatives, and solitary interests? Perhaps more importantly, do you manage
in a manner that permits your leadership team and staff to enjoy their lives
as well as their jobs? Don’t give mixed messages: If you truly believe in
work-life balance, your policies and practices should reflect it.
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Reduce
24/7 Work Expectations |
Many managers take pride in the fact that, in spite of downsizing, they are
squeezing the necessary work production out of the employees who remain.
They boast that they can get away with a lot because people are afraid of
getting fired in this bad economy. They feel confident in sending employees
home with work to complete on their own time, call to give them new tasks in
the evenings and on weekends, and text or email whenever the mood strikes.
This results in staff working around the clock –- hardly allowing any
balance of leisure with work time. Cease the abuse of your power if you
truly care about your staff and want them to take care of themselves
physically and emotionally. They may be producing for you now, but they
certainly can’t give you their greatest creativity and innovative thinking
when sapped by persistent stress and burnout. As they start cutting corners
and covering up in an effort to cope, your customer service and product
quality will suffer in the long run.
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Value
Employees with Families |
It’s no secret that in many workplaces, staff with families get the shaft.
They are often overlooked for plum assignments or to attend prestigious
events, for example. This is explained away as support of these employees’
wish to be at home with their families but, when pressed, managers
acknowledge believing that these workers are distracted by worry about their
children and use their free time to call home or to take care of other
obligations while others devote all of their time and attention to the job.
You are displaying bias and missing out on the talent these workers can
bring to special assignments and activities when you cut them out. Yes, the
job is important, but all of your employees need time for themselves.
What they do during this time, whether doting on family or tending to other
personal interests, should not count against them as a negative.
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Promote Use of Flextime
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It’s understandable that work must be done after hours or on weekends at
times. But your employees need time to restore and rejuvenate, so should be
encouraged to use flextime as soon after the extended work time as possible.
You’re exploiting your staff when you signal that use of flextime is
unacceptable and that they will be overlooked for advancement or other
opportunities if they use it. The abuse of workers in requiring overtime but
prohibiting flextime, much less not paying salary for it, is rampant. Don’t
be one of these oppressors. Your staff can bring renewed energy and fresh
ideas to your workplace when they are well rested and fortified by
gratifying activities and relationships that vitalize their lives.
You are responsible for getting the work of the business done while
balancing all the complexities of the people who work for you, and this is a
tough job. But it’s important to lead with integrity and to remember that,
while profitability is essential to the survival of the business, the
survival of your staff is important too. Don’t let greed be the priority. If
you espouse a belief in your employees’ need to have fulfilling lives after
work, give them some “after work” to enjoy.
About the Author:
Dr. E. Carol Webster is a clinical
psychologist consultant in Fort Lauderdale, FL. She is author of
the book for those dealing with the stress of success ―
Success
Management: How to Get to the Top and Keep Your Sanity Once You Get There,
and The Fear of Success: Stop It From Stopping You!
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the book to help you overcome fears that may be holding you back in your
life and career.
To contact Dr. Webster visit online at http://drcarolwebster.com
or call 954.797.9766. |
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