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Volume 6 Issue 11 -- November 2009
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Feature Article
 

Praise Propels Performance
 

E. Carol Webster, Ph.D. 
Copyright ©  2009

Hold onto your high performers by applauding them for their good work. Praise helps to enhance productivity while encouraging loyalty and deepened commitment. Your younger workers in particular seek praise to drive performance, being accustomed to receiving strokes for “simply being me”, and will bounce around from job to job if required to go without recognition for too long. This costs you money. While your older employees may be less needy, they feel more secure when they know what specific accomplishments you value. This helps them replicate their success with confidence, and rewards you with laudable results. So make time to give strokes that stoke morale and high achievement.

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 Accept the Power of Praise

Many managers balk at the need to praise their employees because they are self-motivators and don’t understand why others aren’t. Many have been raised in loving homes but without much open show of attention or affection. Their most significant achievements and accomplishments come and go without much fuss by others, so it doesn’t occur to them to make a fuss either. If this describes you, you may find it hard to be attentive to your staff but, with a little effort, you can learn how to do this. View it as a necessary work skill, as a strengthening of your emotional intelligence and acumen as a manager, not just as dishing out “fluff” to your employees. 

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Don’t Say What You Don’t Mean

Your praise must be genuine, so don’t offer empty compliments or reward performance that is not really noteworthy. While many of your younger employees grew up receiving prizes and awards given to everyone as a means of building self-esteem, at some level even they realize that this was not helpful and prevents them from effectively determining when they really are doing something extraordinary. Don’t lump everyone in unless you’re rewarding team performance. And help others value your praise by making your comments timely. Note exceptional performance when you observe it and only offer compliments that you sincerely mean.  

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Make Your Praise Public

 While it’s fine to praise in private, public praise packs more punch. But give some thought to the best forum for the staff you are praising. Your older workers may prefer more formal, “traditional” means of being acknowledged, while those who are younger may enjoy more spontaneity and fanfare. Just about everyone likes to see their name in print, so use your organization’s communications tools generously by acknowledging those who excel. And it takes no time to praise employees in staff meetings and lunch gatherings. Unlike reprimands and scoldings which should be done in private and often constitute bullying when done publicly, giving praise in public forums allows your employees to bask in the limelight and can generate great reassurance and re-charged enthusiasm about the job.

 Praise is a powerful motivator and reinforcer of high achievement. Use it generously, but be specific about the behavior you are praising and be sincere about it. Praise pumps egos – but also bottom lines, so view it as an essential element of your management toolbox.

 About the Author: 
Dr. E. Carol Webster is a clinical psychologist consultant in Fort Lauderdale, FL and is author of 
Success Management: How to Get to the Top and Keep Your Sanity Once You Get There
and The Fear of Success: Stop It From Stopping You!

 

Ask Dr. Webster...

Dear Dr. Webster: 

You recently wrote an article about incivility and I want to add something. I've been referring a lot of business to a colleague who never says thank you or anything about receiving the referrals. I also send celebratory gifts and condolences to associates and never hear a thing from them. Is it just me or have good manners flown out the window??

-- Would Like Some Thanks

Dear Would Like Some Thanks: No, it’s not you. Your colleagues either have very poor home training or are ignoring the training they received. There is no requirement that business associates show good manners, but it sure would be nice. Question is, why do you continue to trust your business referrals to people who give you repeated examples of their thoughtlessness and poor judgment? These attitudes likely affect how they handle the clients you're sending them. Ultimately, this reflects negatively upon you too, so think twice before sending any more business their way. Expand your network so that you have other contacts – preferably those who value your referrals and thoughtfulness and who will respond in kind.

  --Dr. Webster

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Success Motivator

As a splendid palace deserted by its inmates looks like a ruin, so does a man without character, all his material belongings notwithstanding.

 -- Mohandas Gandhi

 Success Tip

Keeping Urgency Up After A Success

1.    Anticipate, in advance, a possible downturn in the sense of urgency.

2.       Plan for a solution.

3.      Whether or not it is anticipated and planned for, as soon as urgency starts to dip use an appropriate combination of urgency-raising tactics within the framework of a heart-head strategy.

a.     Bring more of the outside in.

b.     Act urgently in new and fresh ways.

c.      Use (or create) a new crisis.

d.     Deal with the remaining NoNos.

Most of all, work, over time, to drive a sense of urgency into the culture.


  From the book:

 A Sense of Urgency

by John Kotter

Harvard Business Press, Boston, 2008

 

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