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Success!Ezine
Volume 6 Issue 11 -- November 2009
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E. Carol Webster, Ph.D. is a clinical psychologist
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Dr. Webster is author of
Success Management: How to Get to the Top and Keep
Your Sanity Once You Get There and The
Fear of Success: Stop It From Stopping You! |
Feature Article
Praise Propels
Performance
E. Carol Webster, Ph.D.
Copyright © 2009
Hold onto your high performers by applauding them for their good work.
Praise helps to enhance productivity while encouraging loyalty and deepened
commitment. Your younger workers in particular seek praise to drive
performance, being accustomed to receiving strokes for “simply being me”,
and will bounce around from job to job if required to go without recognition
for too long. This costs you money. While your older employees may be less
needy, they feel more secure when they know what specific
accomplishments you value. This helps them replicate their success with
confidence, and rewards you with laudable results. So make time to give
strokes that stoke morale and high achievement.
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Accept
the Power of Praise |
Many managers balk at the need to praise their employees because they are
self-motivators and don’t understand why others aren’t. Many have been
raised in loving homes but without much open show of attention or affection.
Their most significant achievements and accomplishments come and go without
much fuss by others, so it doesn’t occur to them to make a fuss either. If
this describes you, you may find it hard to be attentive to your staff but,
with a little effort, you can learn how to do this. View it as a necessary
work skill, as a strengthening of your emotional intelligence and acumen as
a manager, not just as dishing out “fluff” to your employees.
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Don’t Say What You Don’t Mean |
Your praise must be genuine, so don’t offer empty compliments or reward
performance that is not really noteworthy. While many of your younger
employees grew up receiving prizes and awards given to everyone as a means
of building self-esteem, at some level even they realize that this was not
helpful and prevents them from effectively determining when they really
are doing something extraordinary. Don’t lump everyone in unless you’re
rewarding team performance. And help others value your praise by making your
comments timely. Note exceptional performance when you observe it and only
offer compliments that you sincerely mean.
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Make Your Praise Public |
While
it’s fine to praise in private, public praise packs more punch. But give
some thought to the best forum for the staff you are praising. Your older
workers may prefer more formal, “traditional” means of being acknowledged,
while those who are younger may enjoy more spontaneity and fanfare. Just
about everyone likes to see their name in print, so use your organization’s
communications tools generously by acknowledging those who excel. And it
takes no time to praise employees in staff meetings and lunch gatherings.
Unlike reprimands and scoldings which should be done in private and often
constitute bullying when done publicly, giving praise in public forums
allows your employees to bask in the limelight and can generate great
reassurance and re-charged enthusiasm about the job.
Praise is a
powerful motivator and reinforcer of high achievement. Use it generously,
but be specific about the behavior you are praising and be sincere about it.
Praise pumps egos – but also bottom lines, so view it as an essential
element of your management toolbox.
About the Author:
Dr. E. Carol Webster is a clinical psychologist consultant in Fort Lauderdale, FL and is author of
Success Management: How to
Get to the Top and Keep Your Sanity Once You Get There
and The Fear of Success: Stop
It From Stopping You!
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Ask Dr. Webster...
Dear Dr. Webster:
You recently wrote an article about incivility and I want to add something.
I've been referring a lot of business to a colleague who never says thank
you or anything about receiving the referrals. I also send celebratory gifts
and condolences to associates and never hear a thing from them. Is it just
me or have good manners flown out the window??
-- Would Like Some Thanks

Dear Would Like Some Thanks: No, it’s not you. Your colleagues
either have very poor home training or are ignoring the training they
received. There is no requirement that business associates show good
manners, but it sure would be nice. Question is, why do you continue to
trust your business referrals to people who give you repeated examples of
their thoughtlessness and poor judgment? These attitudes likely affect how
they handle the clients you're sending them. Ultimately, this reflects
negatively upon you too, so think twice before sending any more
business their way. Expand your network so that you have other contacts –
preferably those who value your referrals and thoughtfulness and who will
respond in kind.
--Dr. Webster
Got a Question?
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Success Motivator
As a splendid palace deserted by its inmates looks like a ruin, so does a
man without character, all his material belongings notwithstanding.
-- Mohandas Gandhi

Success Tip
Keeping Urgency Up After
A Success
1. Anticipate,
in advance, a possible downturn in the sense of urgency.
2.
Plan for a solution.
3. Whether
or not it is anticipated and planned for, as soon as urgency starts to
dip use an appropriate combination of urgency-raising tactics within the
framework of a heart-head strategy.
a. Bring
more of the outside in.
b. Act
urgently in new and fresh ways.
c. Use
(or create) a new crisis.
d. Deal
with the remaining NoNos.
Most of all,
work, over time, to drive a sense of urgency into the culture.
From the book:
A Sense of Urgency
by John Kotter
Harvard Business Press, Boston, 2008 |
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Incivility in the Workplace |
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Value Vacation |
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Helplessness Hinders Success |
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Post Downsizing Stress Syndrome |
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April 2009 |
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Hang Tough In Tough Times |
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