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Success!Ezine
Volume 6 Issue 3 -- March 2009
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Dr. Webster is author of
Success Management: How to Get to the Top and Keep
Your Sanity Once You Get There and The
Fear of Success: Stop It From Stopping You! |
Feature Article
Hang
Tough In Tough Times
E. Carol Webster, Ph.D.
Copyright © 2009
These are
tough economic times and just about everyone is feeling squeezed in one
way or another. It’s enough to make you depressed and, indeed, mental
health professionals are very busy these days. But what they will all
tell you is that those who are most resilient will weather these trying
times. And you can learn how to become one of these folks.
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Stay Focused |
Whether you’ve been laid off, are watching your business plummet, or are the
only one left to do all the work of your former team, try to keep your
focus. Get out and job hunt everyday, make the networking rounds to prospect
for new business, and stay visible with decision-makers if you’re still
employed. The natural tendency is to want to withdraw and to feel sorry for
yourself, but resist this. Those who withstand tough times must be tough
themselves.
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Look for New Solutions |
Chances are that the old way of doing things is not going to result in
success today. But no action guarantees no results, so go ahead and
try those strategies that have worked for you in the past. Then think of new
steps you can take to find that job or business. Add new people to your
network. Move in a new direction. Use your imagination. Resilient people
whose workload has tripled take advantage of corporate flux to recommend new
ways of doing things. They devise new strategies for tackling their so that
they don’t crumble under the weight of it all. You can do this too.
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Embrace Change |
During these difficult economic times, it’s best to expect change. Those who
fare best accept that things may need to be done differently now and look
for ways that this can have positive meaning for them. It’s important to
believe that you will weather the storm and possibly come out in better
shape somehow. Monitor your thoughts and stamp out negative, pessimistic
thinking. Look forward to what tomorrow may bring and let optimism guide
your actions in spite of the fact that today may feel pretty crummy.
Getting through tough times takes grit. You can do it. Keep working your
plan, use ingenuity to push through obstacles, and look for ways that
changes occurring in your life can have positive meaning for you. Until
things improve, hang tough!
About the Author:
Dr. E. Carol Webster is a clinical psychologist and speaker in consulting
practice in Fort Lauderdale, FL and is author of
Success Management: How to
Get to the Top and Keep Your Sanity Once You Get There
and The Fear of Success: Stop
It From Stopping You!
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Ask Dr. Webster...
Dear Dr. Webster:
I’m a
nervous wreck. Everyone is being laid off all around me and who knows if
I’ll be next? Then I’m up to my neck doing all the work they left behind.
I’m so mad I could scream! How’s anyone supposed to handle all this?
-- Coming Unglued

Dear Coming Unglued: It certainly is nerve-wracking to witness
layoffs day after day – whether in your company or in others. This incites
fear so it’s understandable that you feel anxious and on edge. In addition,
you have the burden of being saddled with so much extra work when you’re
already feeling stressed. This can cause you to feel like you’re losing it
so, if your usual coping strategies are not working for you, give your EAP
(Employee Assistance Program) a call. They understand what you’re going
through in your particular workplace and can help you get through this rough
time. At home, reach out for extra support. This will give you a greater
sense of understanding, comfort, and belonging at a time when all these
layoffs cause everyone to feel abandoned, disconnected and left to fend for
themselves.
--Dr. Webster
Got a Question?
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Success Motivator
If you have but one wish,
let it be for an idea.
-- Percy Sutton
Success Tip
What's Wrong with Us?
1. Winning
too much
2. Adding
too much value
3. Passing
judgment
4. Making
destructive comments
5.
Starting with “no,” “But,” or “However”
6. Telling
the world how smart we are
7.
Speaking when angry
8.
Negativity, or “Let me explain why that won’t work”
9.
Withholding information
10.
Failing to
give proper recognition
11.
Claiming
credit that we don’t deserve
12.
Making
excuses
13.
Clinging
to the past
14.
Playing
favorites
15. Refusing
to express regret
16. Not
listening
17. Failing to
express gratitude
18. Punishing
the messenger
19. Passing
the buck
20. An
excessive need to be “me”
From the book:
What Got You Here
Won’t Get You There
by Marshall Goldsmith with Mark Reiter
Hyperion, New York, 2007
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Empathic Leadership |
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September 2008 |
Constant Complainer? |
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August 2008 |
Making Dreams Happen |
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July 2008 |
Pinched By the Economic Squeeze? |
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June 2008 |
Emotional Control |
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May 2008 |
Optimism |
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April 2008 |
Loss of Stature |
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Overconfidence |
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